Dear Counselor: Finders, keepers? It doesn’t work that way

Question: A friend of mine recently bought a house, and in doing some clean up and painting after closing, he found an antique toy tractor in the attic. It’s supposedly worth about $300; I assume the former owner simply forgot about it when moving her things out of the house. Then again, she may have [...]

By |2018-08-03T16:09:12-07:00May 26th, 2018|Dear Counselor|Comments Off on Dear Counselor: Finders, keepers? It doesn’t work that way

Dear Counselor: Whose tree is it, anyway?

Question: My neighbor has a large tree close to the property line separating our backyards. It is a nice-looking tree that provides some privacy screening between our two lots. The branches, however, hang over into my yard and are very close to the power line that crosses my property and services my home. I spoke [...]

By |2018-08-03T16:09:01-07:00May 12th, 2018|Dear Counselor|Comments Off on Dear Counselor: Whose tree is it, anyway?

Dear Counselor: A House Divided

Question: My sister and I inherited a small but valuable property in the Bay Area from our mother several years ago. It was my mother’s house that she bought and lived in since the 1960s. After she passed, my sister and I cleaned out the property and did some minor renovations. For the past several [...]

By |2018-08-03T16:08:48-07:00April 28th, 2018|Dear Counselor|Comments Off on Dear Counselor: A House Divided

Dear Counselor: Is It Any Of His Business?

Question: My ex-husband and I divorced a few years ago. He was a workaholic, and I think that caused a strain on our marriage that ultimately led to our divorce. We worked out a parenting plan where we would have “equal” custody of the children. I think that he insisted on an “equal” plan because [...]

By |2018-08-03T16:08:30-07:00April 14th, 2018|Dear Counselor|Comments Off on Dear Counselor: Is It Any Of His Business?

Dear Counselor: California Looks Favorably on Job Mobility

Question: I have worked here for a national company for almost two decades. A competing business recently expressed an interest in what I can bring to the job at their company. They are also offering to pay me more in salary, and the benefits appear better. I am concerned that my current employer may take [...]

By |2018-04-01T18:38:31-07:00March 5th, 2018|Dear Counselor|Comments Off on Dear Counselor: California Looks Favorably on Job Mobility

Dear Counselor: Thorny Issues Around an Inheritance

Question: After my father died last year, I received notice that I was a beneficiary of a trust. The money in the trust was not really my father’s but rather an inheritance he received from his uncle. I have been processing the passing of my father and the family dynamics involved with that, and I [...]

By |2018-04-01T18:38:42-07:00February 18th, 2018|Dear Counselor|Comments Off on Dear Counselor: Thorny Issues Around an Inheritance

Dear Counselor: From A Messy Divorce Spring Thoughts Of Prenup

Question: I got divorced a few years ago. I have been in a relationship now for almost a year, and my girlfriend recently accepted my marriage proposal. My prior divorce was drawn out with so many arguments and it was so expensive that I really want to avoid that mess, if at all possible. Although [...]

By |2018-02-06T22:37:12-08:00February 6th, 2018|Dear Counselor|Comments Off on Dear Counselor: From A Messy Divorce Spring Thoughts Of Prenup

Dear Counselor: Time To Step Up And Help Manage Father’s Dementia

Question: Since my mother passed away a few years ago, my dad has been living alone at home and managing somewhat well. Shortly after her death, we visited a lawyer, and my father made me his agent under a power of attorney. I visit him frequently and have coordinated to have someone come by his [...]

By |2018-01-11T16:27:23-08:00January 6th, 2018|Dear Counselor|Comments Off on Dear Counselor: Time To Step Up And Help Manage Father’s Dementia

Dear Counselor: Good Fences Make Good Neighbors

Question: After the winds that blew hard here last week, the fence that separates my property from my neighbor’s was badly damaged. The fence has been in disrepair for some time, and it bothers me. Because of the way our houses are situated and our respective landscaping choices, the fence features more prominently on my [...]

By |2018-02-06T22:38:08-08:00December 23rd, 2017|Dear Counselor|Comments Off on Dear Counselor: Good Fences Make Good Neighbors

Dear Counselor: I Didn’t Agree to Throw Money Down the Drain

Question: I had a plumbing company come to my house and give me an estimate on replacing a kitchen faucet and some shower fixtures. The plumber told me that he couldn’t see behind the walls to tell me what would need to be done. He told me that he hoped it would be a simple [...]

By |2018-01-11T16:27:43-08:00December 10th, 2017|Dear Counselor|Comments Off on Dear Counselor: I Didn’t Agree to Throw Money Down the Drain
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